I read this topic of news paper.it is form The Japan Times Weekly.
parents who stay together for the sake of their children may be doing them more harm than good, according to new research.
Children whose parents remain married but frequently argue do worse at school than those from secure, lone-parent families. they are more likely to use drugs and have mental heals proglems and behavia issues. we can call them 'high-conflict' families. they becoming binge drenkers is about a third higher than tnose from single-parent households. children from high-conflict mamilies have an increased likelihood, of an order of magnitude ranging from 45 persent to 75 persent, of eight out of 10 of our outcomes: dropping of school, poor grades, smorking, bingr drinking, marijuana use, early sex, and union dissolution. using date from 2000 families interviewed are serch seties. the report tracked children from age 4 to 34.
it showed that substance sbuse was common, with one- thid of them on unhappy families repoeting somrking an binge drinking in hte past month, and a quarther using marijhana in the past year. one in the five children frome unhappy families reported having sex for the first time before 16 with the same persentage cohabiting gy 21. and 9 persents had a child outside marriadge and 40 persents experienced the dissolution of their first cohabiting or marital union.
until I read this topic, I thought that keeping stay together for the sake of children is beeter than single-parent family. however, parents who stay together without love is cauose their children's problems. children are sensitive for parents relationship. In my case, if my parents get fight I really sad. on the other hand, if my parents are smiling or talking a lot, I'm very happy. parents are very important presence for children. chilren look parentes always more than parents thinking. if you dicide to divorce, you don't worry about your children. you just thow your lots of love for your children. the most important thing to bring up good children is love!!
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